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You might be here because...

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You’re used to being the caregiver
You’re the one who notices what everyone needs, keeps things moving, and makes sure others are okay. Your own needs can feel like one more thing you have to manage

You know you’re a people-pleaser
You’ve noticed the pattern. You know you say yes when you mean no, worry about disappointing people, or look outside yourself for reassurance. Knowing the pattern hasn’t necessarily made it easier to change.

You’ve lost yourself in the roles you play
The roles that give you purpose or belonging can become so consuming that you’re no longer sure what you want outside of them.

You’re caught between “too much” and “not enough”
Too sensitive. Too direct. And somehow, still not enough. You’re tired of constantly measuring yourself against what you think you should be.

You’re carrying a loss that doesn’t feel easy to explain
You may be grieving a person, a relationship, a fur baby, a role, a culture, an expectation, or a version of yourself. The loss is real, even when there’s no obvious crisis or language for it.

You’re carrying more than one culture, expectation, or identity
You may feel caught between what you were taught you should be and the person you’re becoming. Family, culture, responsibility, and belonging can make knowing what you want for yourself complicated.

You’re functioning, but you’re running on empty
You’re still working, parenting, caregiving, achieving, and showing up. From the outside, you may look completely fine. Inside, you’re burned out, disconnected, or wondering how long you can keep going like this.

That gave rise to a vision: spaces and tools that don’t aim to fix, but to align helping you slow down, notice patterns, and come back to what matters. Over time, that vision became a practice, a coaching approach, and a collection of tools all designed to help people selfen: to live in a way that feels true, intentional, and aligned.

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Here's what we believe:

Here's what we believe:

Mental health isn't always about fixing what's broken. It’s about understanding what shaped you and making intentional choices about what comes next. 

You don’t need a breakdown or a perfectly articulated reason to seek support. Sometimes knowing that something feels off is enough. 

Sometimes it’s a place to understand the patterns you’ve been living with, make space for what you’re carrying, and reconnect with what matters to you.  

You shouldn’t have to become better at carrying everything just because you’ve become good at carrying it.

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Selfen Psychotherapy is for adults navigating:

Selfen Psychotherapy is for adults navigating:

Selfen Psychotherapy is for adults navigating:

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People-pleasing patterns

Burnout

High-functioning Anxiety

Grief & disenfranchised grief

Identity loss & life transitions

Cultural identity and family expectations

First- and second-generation immigrant experiences

Caregiving (personally, professionally or both)

New parenthood

Self-esteem

Session formats

Therapy is a collaborative and supportive process.

Whether you're seeking healing, growth, or a little extra support in daily life we meet you exactly where you are.

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Free consult

A brief, no-pressure conversation to see if this feels like the right fit for you.

Getting started

We explore your history, what you’re carrying, and what you’re looking for along with the practical details like the logistics, so you feel informed and comfortable moving forward.

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Ongoing alignment

We meet weekly or bi-weekly, creating a steady space to slow down, notice patterns, and come back to yourself.

Book a free session

Session formats

Therapy is a collaborative and supportive process.

Whether you're seeking healing, growth, or a little extra support in daily life we meet you exactly where you are.

01

Free consult

A brief, no-pressure conversation to see if this feels like the right fit for you.

Getting started

We explore your history, what you’re carrying, and what you’re looking for- along with the practical details like the logistics, so you feel informed and comfortable moving forward.

02

03

Ongoing alignment

We meet weekly or bi-weekly, creating a steady space to slow down, notice patterns, and come back to yourself.

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Hi! I’m Dhwani (She/her)

I’ve been a therapist since 2015, and I’m also a human meeting another human in the therapy space. I have a slightly whacked-on-the-head sense of humor, I’m nerdy, and I fidget sometimes. 

I come from a culture where talking about struggles wasn’t really encouraged. There was pressure to excel, keep going, and figure things out. Coping was something you did to get through problems, not necessarily to heal and grow. That experience has shaped how I see therapy. I’m tired of the way our system has glorified resilience, where rest and worth have to be earned.

The inner work can often feel heavy but who says it always has to be serious? We might laugh in session. We might talk about books, food, art, tattoos, nature, pets or whatever you’re passionate about. And we’ll also make space for the harder stuff the things that don’t always have easy words. 

Bring your coffee. Bring a snack. Bring your messy thoughts, your questions, your silence, or whatever else you’re bringing that day.  

You don’t have to show up as a polished version of yourself here. 

Therapy with me is meant to feel intentional- a space where you get to be human, too. 

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Two Practitioners. One Shared Belief.

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How I work

How I work

I am a Registered Psychotherapist (RP) with CRPO. I’m trained in Person-Centred Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy (REBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Mindfulness-Based Psychotherapy, and Hypnotherapy. 

I don’t believe therapy should be one-size-fits-all. I draw from these approaches and combine them based on what you need, where you are, and what feels most useful for you.  

I like to balance structure and flow. Sometimes we’ll slow down and look at where a pattern came from, what it’s been doing for you, and whether it still fits. Other times, we’ll focus on what’s happening right now.  

Sometimes we’ll talk to the younger parts of you that need a little extra care. Sometimes a metaphor makes everything click. And sometimes a TV show character, a book reference, or some random pop-culture moment explains it better than I ever could. 

Whatever helps it land.  

Still have questions? That's okay. That could be the start of our conversation. 

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Take your first step towards peace and fulfilment…

Ready to get started or still have some questions? Perfect. Book a call today and we can begin your journey of self-exploration.

Book a free session

Take your first step towards peace and fulfilment…

Ready to get started or still have some questions? Perfect. Book a call today and we can begin your journey of self-exploration.

Book a free session

You don't have to, carry this alone.

Free 20-min intro call · No obligation · Fully confidential

Free 20-min intro call · No obligation · Fully confidential

Book a free session

Therapist giving therapy to the client

You don't have to, carry this alone.

Free 20-min intro call · No obligation · Fully confidential

Book a free session

Therapist giving therapy to the client

About us

We'd love to hear from you.

Whether you're ready to book, have questions about how we work, or simply want to see if we're the right fit reach out. Every message is read personally.

About us

We'd love to hear from you.

Whether you're ready to book, have questions about how we work, or simply want to see if we're the right fit reach out. Every message is read personally.

Coaching

Hi! I’m Dhwani (She/her)

I’ve been a psychotherapist since 2015. I primarily support high-functioning adults navigating grief, anxiety, complex family dynamics, and life transitions- including the quieter forms of grief that often go unnoticed, such as identity shifts, role changes, and pet loss. Many of the people I work with are also untangling long-standing people-pleasing patterns while learning to reconnect with their own needs and values.

My approach is integrative and practical, drawing from CBT, REBT, IFS, mindfulness, and hypnotherapy. I aim to create a warm, grounded space where clients can understand themselves more deeply, process difficult experiences, and move toward a life that feels aligned and meaningful.

(Registered Psychotherapist, CRPO)

Book with dhwani

Two Practitioners. One Shared Belief.
Two Practitioners. One Shared Belief.

Coaching

Hi! I’m Dhwani (She/her)

I’ve been a psychotherapist since 2015. I primarily support high functioning adults navigating grief, anxiety, complex family dynamics, and life transitions including the quieter forms of grief that often go unnoticed, such as identity shifts, role changes, and pet loss. Many of the people I work with are also untangling long-standing people-pleasing patterns while learning to reconnect with their own needs and values.

My approach is integrative and practical, drawing from CBT, REBT, IFS, mindfulness, and hypnotherapy. I aim to create a warm, grounded space where clients can understand themselves more deeply, process difficult experiences, and move toward a life that feels aligned and meaningful.

(Registered Psychotherapist, CRPO)

Book with dhwani

Two Practitioners. One Shared Belief.
Two Practitioners. One Shared Belief.

Therapy

What therapy with me looks like…

Fees (Individuals- 50 minutes): $150

I meet you where you are. I often say, “Start where you are, do what you can.”

Our work balances structure and flow- sometimes slowing down to understand and challenge old patterns and sometimes focusing on practical ways forward.

I’m human in the room. I have a slightly whacked-on-the-head sense of humour, I’m a bit nerdy, and I fidget sometimes. We might laugh in sessions or talk about books, art, tattoos, nature, or whatever you’re passionate about.

You’re always welcome to bring a coffee or snack and settle in.

Therapy with me is meant to feel thoughtful, genuine, and approachable- a space where you are human too!

Dhwani Rajan

CRPO-Registered Psychotherapist

• Registered Psychotherapist, CRPO #: 18385

• Bridge to Registration and Employment in Mental Health, BREM Canada

• M.A Psychology 2013-2015, University of Mumbai

• Registered Psychotherapist, CRPO #: 18385

• Professional Member, Ontario Association of Mental Health Professionals (OAMHP)

Provinces: Alberta, British Columbia, Manitoba, New Brunswick, Newfoundland and Labrador, Northwest Territories, Nova Scotia, Nunavut, Ontario, Quebec, Saskatchewan, Yukon

Therapy

What I bring to the work…

I believe therapy works best as a collaboration. You know your life best, and I trust your inner wisdom. My role is to walk alongside you- offering perspective, tools, and a space to reflect with honesty and care.

I’ve been practising since 2015. I approach therapy with the understanding that our past experiences shape how we move through the world. I also recognise how our environments and systems influence the stories we carry, and we explore those influences together with curiosity and respect.

My approach is integrative and practical, drawing from CBT, REBT, IFS, mindfulness, inner child work and hypnotherapy depending on what supports you best. Above all, I value genuineness, simplicity, and integrity. Being invited into people’s lives in this way is something I see as a real honour and privilege.

Therapy

What therapy with me looks like…

Fees (Individuals- 50 minutes): $150

I meet you where you are. I often say, “Start where you are, do what you can.”

Our work balances structure and flow- sometimes slowing down to understand and challenge old patterns and sometimes focusing on practical ways forward.

I’m human in the room. I have a slightly whacked-on-the-head sense of humour, I’m a bit nerdy, and I fidget sometimes. We might laugh in sessions or talk about books, art, tattoos, nature, or whatever you’re passionate about.

You’re always welcome to bring a coffee or snack and settle in.

Therapy with me is meant to feel thoughtful, genuine, and approachable- a space where you are human too!

Dhwani Rajan

CRPO-Registered Psychotherapist

• Registered Psychotherapist, CRPO #: 18385

• Bridge to Registration and Employment in Mental Health, BREM Canada

• M.A Psychology 2013-2015, University of Mumbai

• Registered Psychotherapist, CRPO #: 18385

• Professional Member, Ontario Association of Mental Health Professionals (OAMHP)

Provinces: Alberta, British Columbia, Manitoba, New Brunswick, Newfoundland and Labrador, Northwest Territories, Nova Scotia, Nunavut, Ontario, Quebec, Saskatchewan, Yukon

Session formats

Therapy shaped around your life

All sessions are available online.

Two Practitioners. One Shared Belief.
Two Practitioners. One Shared Belief.

50 minutes · Weekly or Fortnightly

Individual Therapy

Ongoing, reflective work at your pace- helping you make sense of what you’ve been carrying and come back to what matters to you

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Goal-Focused Work (6–10 sessions)

Short-Term Support

Focused support for specific areas like sleep, stress, or productivity- structured, practical, and intentional.

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Two Practitioners. One Shared Belief.
Two Practitioners. One Shared Belief.